A Candle Loses Nothing by Lighting Another Candle
- Athena Rayne Kostas
- Oct 5
- 1 min read
There’s a quiet kind of magic in the way one candle can light another.
No struggle. No loss. Just a gentle sharing of flame.
It’s a reminder that kindness, love, and light are not things that diminish when given away—they multiply. In grief, it can be easy to feel like our light has gone out completely, that there’s nothing left to offer. But even in our darkest seasons, the smallest spark—one kind word, one act of compassion—can warm another heart.
When we reach out to someone who’s hurting, we don’t lose our strength. We simply pass on the warmth we already carry. And somehow, that act often gives something back to us: a quiet sense of purpose, connection, and shared humanity.
Maybe your candle flickers some days. That’s okay. Even a flickering flame can light another. Sometimes, the light we share in our most vulnerable moments shines the brightest.
If you’ve ever encouraged someone through their own darkness, offered a listening ear, or spoken words that brought comfort—you’ve been that candle. You’ve shown that even in pain, we can still be a source of light.
A gentle reflection for today:
Who has lit a candle for you when you needed it most?
What small act of light could you share with someone today?
How does it feel to know that your glow might be part of someone else’s healing?
You don’t have to burn brightly all the time. Just keep your light. And when you can, share it.
Because a candle loses nothing by lighting another—but together, they make the world a little brighter.



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